Win, Win, Win Parenting

Create greater cooperation, collaboration, and connection in your family with ease

You can move past conflict and disconnection towards greater cooperation and harmony with your 9 to 15-year-old! 

Learn effective strategies through either 
the DIY program or add on coaching for 
your quickest results.  

Choose the best program below

Course Pricing

Most popular

Self-Paced 2 Installments

2 payments of

$227 USD

per month

  • 2 payments of $247 each

    • 11 hours of engaging videos (15 minutes each appr. )
    • Educational slides for visual learners
    • A guide for each module that enhance the videos
    • The Zenler app for watching anywhere
    • See below for the bonus articles
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Self-Paced One-Time Payment

$397 USD

  • Payment in Full

    • 11 hours of engaging videos (15 minutes each video )
    • Educational slides for visual learners
    • A guide for each module that enhances the videos
    • The Zenler app for watching anywhere
    • See below for the bonus articles.
Buy Now

Supported with Private Coaching - 3 Installments

3 payments of

$475 USD

per month

  • Pay for the Supported Program in three installments.

    • All of the Self-Paced Program benefits PLUS
    • 3 private one-hour individualized coaching sessions
    • Comprehensive assessment to focus coaching
    • Session recordings to download for future reference
    • See below for the additional bonuses
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Supported with Private Coaching - Full Pay

$1297 USD

  • Supported with coaching - Full Pay

    • All of the Self-Paced Program Benefits PLUS
    • 3 private one-hour individualized video coaching sessions
    • Comprehensive assessment to focus coaching
    • Session recordings to download for future referral
    • See below for the additional bonuses
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Here's my question to you!
Do you want to win—

  • More cooperation
  • More collaboration
  • More connection

with your kids and teens?

If you answered “YES!”, then the
Win, Win, Win Parenting Program is for YOU!

You will learn how to reduce: 

  • Arguing
  • Yelling
  • Complaining
  • Talking Back
  • Manipulating

Because you  will learn how to effectively: 

  • State clear boundaries
  • Set respected limits
  • Solve problems together calmly
  • Feel more love and appreciation
  • Have a better relationship with your partner

The foundation of this program is to learn the 3 parenting roles.  
The Director Role - You decide the rule
The Collaborator Role - You and your child decide together
The Supporter Role - Your child makes their own decision

This knowledge will give you a solid format for knowing when and how to discuss an issue, when and how to respectfully state a rule without arguing, and when and how to support your child's own thinking so they become resilient and resourceful. 

How this program is unique - 
While you can watch the videos in any order, the 7 modules  order will guide you in the quickest way to make changes. Many parents say, “Tell me what to do!”  But then you are always relying on someone else. This program will give you the skills and confidence to analyze any interaction problem, choose the best strategy, and know the thoughts and language necessary to successfully act.

As the proverb says, “Give a person a fish, and you feed them for a day.’ teach them how to fish, and you feed them for a lifetime.” Here’s to good fishing!  

Below is the Big Picture of the unique Family Harmony System that you will learn in this program. 

The Self-Paced  and the Supported programs both include:

  • The option to watch the videos of any module to meet your specific needs. 
  • 11 hours of short videos of me talking you through the steps of change. (Around 15 minutes each.) 
  • Access to the videos as long as the program is active
  • The Zenler app for convenience of watching the videos anywhere. 
  • Amazing slides that illustrate the concepts 
  • A guide for each module that gives you specific language to use. 
  • BONUS ARTICLE #1 - The 7 Worst Ways to React to a Strong-Willed Child or Teen
  • BONUS ARTICLE  #2 -  The Family Meeting Essential Planning Tool
  • BONUS ARTICLE #3 - The Independent Living Skills Check List

If you want the quickest success because you’ll have 3 privately tailored coaching sessions with Cynthia, then register for the Supported Program

The Supported program is tailored to find your solutions  for a specific challenge through:  

  • 3 private and individualized video coaching sessions at flexible times
  • Comprehensive parenting assessment to focus coaching
  • Session recordings for you to download for future reference
  • Parenting partner may open their own Zenler account free of charge
  • BONUS ARTICLE #1 - Feelings Words Guide for Adults and Children
  • BONUS  ARTICLE #2 - The Think - Feel - Do Transformation Worksheet
  • BONUS ARTICLE #3 - Collaborative Problem-Solving Process Example with Teen
  • BONUS ARTICLE #4 - Supporter Parenting Role Example - Friendship challenges
  • Plus more.......

My wisdom, that I lovingly share with you in this program, is gained from coaching hundreds of parents and teaching over 675 classes over 30 years. Along the way, I practiced these strategies as I raised a grown daughter. The experience of having a relationship with a strong-willed daughter helped me grow as a person.  I had to self-reflect and make many changes in my thoughts and actions to become a parent I am proud of being.  My daughter and I continue to have a close relationship because of the parenting approach that I used and teach in this program. 

This program is called Win, Win, Win Parenting because there are 3 main focus areas of skill building. You will learn how to win greater cooperation through giving effective directions, greater collaboration through knowing how to have family discussions, and greater connection by learning how to listen to and support your children while they solve their own challenges. All of these skills lead to greater harmony because your children will develop confidence and want to help create a happier family.

Below are the first 7 steps that I’ve used with my private coaching clients for over 30 years. You’ll be walked through the formula  by watching my engaging and descriptive videos of me carefully explaining how to present the changes to your family . You'll learn how to make the changes in your family interactions in ways that they actually appreciate. They'll say, "Thanks for becoming a better parent. You're much nicer now!" You'll feel better about yourself, too!

Are you in?

A Heartwarming Story of a Mom Seeing Long-Term Positive Results

I worked with a mom when her strong-willed daughter was 9. The mom was really struggling and she had visions of a wonderful relationship with her daughter which wasn’t happening.

She didn’t want to give up so she came to me.

The daughter is now 14 and the mom sent me this heartwarming report about how she has continual success from the parenting approach she learned from me.

“5 years ago you helped me with my strong-willed 9-year-old daughter I wanted to report back that she is now a high school freshman, and we continue to be so close and connected. She is truly a joy to be around: passionate, energetic, opinionated, and also thoughtful, kind, and understanding. The ally parenting approach has worked sooo well for my wonderful girl, and we have the relationship that I always wished I had with my own mom.”

It wasn’t by luck that the mom changed.

No, she learned the step-by-step process from me which was so easy to understand that she has continued using it for 5 years and counting.

I actually first developed this system because I WANTED to create a mutually respectful and loving relationship with my strong-willed daughter.

Since this wasn’t my experience as a child, I had to study, practice, and learn as I coached parents, in order to change my own tendency to control and not listen.

So, if I can change and hundreds of others can change, YOU CAN, TOO!

I know this is a bold claim. It is the truth!

Unique information you’ll learn in Win, Win, Win Parenting

  • What to say to your children before you make changes so they’ll be receptive and even excited that you’re changing your ways! 
  • How to balance power so you create harmony. 
  • When to be a Director, Collaborator, and Supporter.  
  • Communication blocks that are shutting down your kids so they won’t share their deep feelings and thoughts with you.  
  • What words to say so you can rebuild trust and your kids will open up to you. 

So, if you want to create a family that really gets along…..then you need to learn RIGHT AWAY the step-by-step Family Harmony System that will get you where you want to be.  

  Congratulations on taking this big leap toward creating more harmony and love in your home!
I look forward to being your parenting coach and support!
Happy Parenting!
Cynthia Klein 

Course Pricing

Most popular

Self-Paced 2 Installments

2 payments of

$227 USD

per month

  • 2 payments of $247 each

    • 11 hours of engaging videos (15 minutes each appr. )
    • Educational slides for visual learners
    • A guide for each module that enhance the videos
    • The Zenler app for watching anywhere
    • See below for the bonus articles
Buy Now

Self-Paced One-Time Payment

$397 USD

  • Payment in Full

    • 11 hours of engaging videos (15 minutes each video )
    • Educational slides for visual learners
    • A guide for each module that enhances the videos
    • The Zenler app for watching anywhere
    • See below for the bonus articles.
Buy Now

Supported with Private Coaching - 3 Installments

3 payments of

$475 USD

per month

  • Pay for the Supported Program in three installments.

    • All of the Self-Paced Program benefits PLUS
    • 3 private one-hour individualized coaching sessions
    • Comprehensive assessment to focus coaching
    • Session recordings to download for future reference
    • See below for the additional bonuses
Buy Now

Supported with Private Coaching - Full Pay

$1297 USD

  • Supported with coaching - Full Pay

    • All of the Self-Paced Program Benefits PLUS
    • 3 private one-hour individualized video coaching sessions
    • Comprehensive assessment to focus coaching
    • Session recordings to download for future referral
    • See below for the additional bonuses
Buy Now

Cynthia Klein

Cynthia Klein’s mission is to contribute to World Peace and the family is the place to begin.

As a parenting expert for over 30 years, parents learn from Cynthia how to communicate more effectively with their children as an ally rather than an adversary. Her unique Family Harmony Formula teaches a step-by-step process to make the changes you need to create greater harmony in your home.

Cynthia focuses on teaching parents of 8 to 15-year-olds language and actions that build greater influence which leads to connection, cooperation, and collaboration. The family learns how to have open dialogue, solve problems together, support one another, and build mutual respect in all relationships. Thus, the seeds of peace are nourished.  

Cynthia is the author of Ally Parenting and has spoken in person at over 650 schools and organizations, successfully coached over 3000 private parenting sessions, and taught numerous online workshops. She earned a Child Psychology degree at U.C. Berkeley, taught elementary school, and is certified in adult and parenting education.

Her website is https://bridges2understanding.com