And for those who are thinking, “Well, what is the formula?” Below are the 7 steps that I’ve used with my private coaching clients for many years. You’ll be walked through the formula my private coaching clients use to make amazing positive changes in their families.
You’re here to learn how to parent them better so you’re not waiting for the next explosion, worried about how they will turn out, or how to be on the same page with your parenting partner. The only problem is that you know what isn’t working, yelling and nagging for example, but you don’t know how to change what you are doing wrong. You are feeling stuck and confused and not trusting that another approach would be any better.
Have you ever wondered why you don’t know how to change from your current ineffective approach to one that will empower you to take control of your family’s happiness? Do you ever wish you did know how to change and parent successfully without feeling confused and hopeless?
It’s easy to say, “I want more cooperation, I’d like my kids to respect me more, I’d like them to share their problems with me. I want them to appreciate me more. I want to feel more loving towards my kids and partner.”
The problem that every parent I talk to has is that they don’t know how to make the transition from the struggles they are currently facing and suffering over to this wonderful dream of a safe and harmonious home. They are missing the step-by-step plan. They can’t make the leap over this huge gap. They can only do it step by step but what are the steps? They try on their own only to get discouraged over and over again because change takes following a well-thought-out and time-proven system to work.
But if you’re like many struggling parents I talk to, chances are you also:
* Don’t feel good all the time about what you are saying or doing but that’s how you were raised.
* Are confused about why your current approach isn’t working but you don’t know what to do instead.
* Have expectations about your children that they aren’t living up to so you feel let down and frustrated.
And if you are really honest, you have to admit that you need to learn a new approach and not tell yourself that you don’t need help. You need to stop telling your partner that you know how to parent just fine even though everyone in the family is miserable.
You’re concerned. If things continue as they are now, what will your family and kids be like in 5 or 10 years? Family interactions aren’t getting better as you had hoped. This isn’t the life you pictured as a parent. But you don’t feel like you have time to make it better. But if you don’t……..
It’s time to let down your guard and admit that parenting is a skill to learn like every other skill. If your family is unhappy, it’s time for a change and you have the power to make this change. Your family’s lifelong happiness is worth two months of effort.
The Win, Win, Win Parenting program is:
- Self-paced and you can go to any module you want to find the solutions you need.
- 45 short videos of me talking you through the steps of change
- The Zenler app for convenience in viewing wherever you are.
- Amazing slides that illustrate the concepts
- A guide for each module
- 8 modules that cover all the skills needed to gain more cooperation, collabortion , and connection.
Your financial investment is only $397 for now until the price goes up later.
So, how do you learn how to use discipline parenting instead? It’s not that you can’t win more cooperation, collaboration, and connection in your home, it’s just that you haven’t learned HOW to get there.
Here is a story from a mother of a daughter whom I taught how to transform her challenges into greater joy when her daughter was 9 years old. The mom was really struggling and she had visions of a wonderful relationship with her daughter which wasn’t happening. She didn’t want to give up so she came to me. The daughter is now 14 and the mom sent me this heartwarming report about how she has continual success from the parenting approach she learned from me.
“5 years ago you helped me with my strong-willed 9-year-old daughter I wanted to report back that she is now a high school freshman, and we continue to be so close and connected. She is truly a joy to be around: passionate, energetic, opinionated, and also thoughtful, kind, and understanding. The ally parenting approach has worked sooo well for my wonderful girl, and we have the relationship that I always wished I had with my own mom.”
It wasn’t by luck that the mom changed. No, she learned the step-by-step process from me which was so easy to understand that she has continued using it for 5 years and counting.
I actually first developed this system because I WANTED to create a mutually respectful and loving relationship with my strong-willed daughter. Since this wasn’t my experience as a child, I had to study, practice, and learn as I coached parents, in order to change my own tendency to control and not listen.
So, if I can change and hundreds of others can change, YOU CAN, TOO!
I know this is a bold claim.
I’m going to give you a taste of what secrets you’ll learn that you won’t find anywhere else.
Did you know that you don’t just start making changes in how you parent? If you do, your kids/teens won’t know what’s going on. They will be suspicious that you are trying to control them and will be unlikely to let you try a new approach.
So, in this program, I’ll teach you what to say to your children before you make changes so they’ll be receptive and even excited that you’re changing your ways!
Did you also know that determining what your parenting role is will determine your success? In this program, you’ll learn how to be an effective Director, Collaborator, and Supporter. If you try to direct when you need to support instead, your kids will get so mad at you!
And third, did you know that you may be using communication blocks that are shutting down your kids so they won’t share their deep feelings and thoughts with you? In this program, you’ll learn what words to say so you can rebuild trust and your kids will open up to you.
The key is in the transformation formula you are using. I have developed my expertise in how to teach parents the transformation process from raising my daughter and listening to and working with parents for over 30 years. I call it the 7-step Family Harmony Formula which hundreds of parents have learned and implemented with great success.
So, if you want more cooperation, collaboration, and connection in your family…..then you need to learn RIGHT AWAY the step-by-step Family Harmony Formula that will get you where you want to be.
Congratulations on taking this big leap toward creating more harmony and love in your home!